When lady talk about sex freely and dress in a seducing manner in other to attract attention, others do so to please them self . Some will never utter a word about their sexual orientation but dress in a manner of seduction in other to attract the appeal of their own body. There harness this thoughts within them all day long and keep a smile on their lips this feelings get to a level that when evening begins to approach the do all to distance themselves from anything be it human or material that is not in harmony with their yearning and all there crave for is solitude or to be with that one. At this point another personality begins to impose itself internally and the desire to touch and caress the body becomes uncontrollable he/she becomes repulsive to anything external except his/her or her own body.
I remember a quotation in my urban Geography teacher that read ‘ Migrants do not move to empty destination but, towards better opportunities’ Meaning before a journey begins we all set specific goals. What is certain is that the quest for some better ending is always assured. Nevertheless boiling down to details like, the satisfaction one will want to get out of a glass of water when thirsty, a plate of dessert, etc. points out this certainty of aspirations either consciously or unconsciously.
What has Narcissism or masturbation got to do with destinations or goals?, Narcissism which is rather materialistic, describes the trait of excessive self-love, based on self-image or ego. We can say on the other hand that eating describes the trait of excessive taste-love based on hunger or gloat. One may herewith associate the description of masturbation and Narcissism with the difference that Masturbation is not materialistic that is it not based on ego. On the other hand deriving pleasure or pleasing one self with sophisticated perfumes, outfits and jewelry or strolling in crowded parks is what Narcissism stands for being the kind of self love that is practice in the open. Masturbation is the kind that is done on secrecy there is no need for perfumes and clothing the individual finds much pleasure being alone in a quite room and feeling his own body odor or form. The endpoint in both struggle and play is self satisfaction or at times confusion.
“Well, perhaps it takes one to know one, but to determine a metrosexual, all you have to do is look at them. In fact, if you’re looking at them, they’re almost certainly metrosexual. The typical metrosexual is a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis — because that’s where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are. He might be officially gay, straight or bisexual, but this is utterly immaterial because he has clearly taken himself as his own love object and pleasure as his sexual preference. Particular professions, such as modeling, waiting tables, media, pop music and, nowadays, sport, seem to attract them but, truth be told, like male vanity products and herpes, they’re pretty much everywhere.”[
Narcissism increased in popularity following Simpson’s 2002 Salon.com article “Meet the metrosexual”, which identified David Beckham as the metrosexual poster boy. The advertising agency Euro RCSG Worldwide adopted the term shortly thereafter for a marketing study, and the New York Times published a Sunday feature, “Metrosexuals Come Out”; the story trickled into local news outlets across North America
l Narcissism it is a word derived from the Greek mythology of Narcissus. Narcissus was a handsome Greek youth who rejected the desperate advances of the nymph Echo. As punishment, he was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Unable to consummate his love, Narcissus pined away and changed into the flower that bears his name, the narcissus. The difference to be derived here can be depicted in the elaboration of the word Metrosexual
You can notice this single lady /gentleman or couple hurrying down the street after work she gets inside her room fasten all the locks behind her , unmindful of what ever fragile or precious item she might be holding she drops everything on the flour and tore off her/his dresses and gets to that habitual position where she can best touch and feel body.
When a man or lady walks all across the streets wet not because he/has seen some erotic pictures or because of some opposite you will ask, is this not a way of defying the laws of attraction. Something was not adding up when I again read this article which read
“For some time now, old-fashioned (re)productive, repressed, unmoisturized heterosexuality has been given the pink slip by consumer capitalism. The stoic, self-denying, modest straight male didn’t shop enough (his role was to earn money for his wife to spend), and so he had to be replaced by a new kind of man, one less certain of his identity and much more interested in his image – that’s to say, one who was much more interested in being looked at (because that’s the only way you can be certain you actually exist). A man, in other words, who is an advertiser’s walking wet dream”.
This words seems so convincing but there do not match up because reproduction can never be termed old fashion as well as heterosexuals become wet on the streets when there think of their wifes/husbands. when you depict the elegance in dressing and the choice of perfume, lipstick and jewelry of a beautiful young married lady who is doing all to distract his handsome husband from the seduction of other ladies of her class, then you will understand what an advertiser’s walking wet dream is.
There are some that adorn or lavish their bodies with all that opulence can offer yet the impact is thrown on empty destinations ( parks, metros, etc) focusing on a passersby with no occurring returns to the bearer, there are others who adorn or lavish their bodies with the essentials that their opulence can offer with the impact thrown on a targeted object a better opportunity( beds, room, kitchen etc) focusing on a husband, wife, partner with an immediate increasing returns.